B. Some
of the Constituents of Narcissism:
We should
not expect narcissism to be a simple psychical entity that has a simple structure. It is a psychical entity
that anyway we look at it (cause or effect) we find ourselves unable to come to
a satisfying conclusion about it.
Narcissism
is not a term created by psychoanalysis. Its parallels are part of human
language since God bestowed on Adam the special status of being different from
the rest of his creations. However, analysts, as usual, assume the right to
explain anything that pertain to the subject’s psyche. Thus, it became
imperative that the term, which Freud coined to mean self- partiality (adulation),
has to get a place in our endeavours to explain ourselves (because no other
animal is suspect of narcissism). But analysts- did not pay the attention
needed to question narcissism: is narcissism a psychical condition created by
something else or is it a condition that creates other psychical conditions? A hasty
answer to this question would ignore, neglect, or just avoid facing the fact
that we do not know yet.
Narcissism
is the central issue in our sense of being and also any deviations in that
important psychical condition. Our sense of being is narcissistic because it is
basically ‘knowing that we know that we are existing’. Narcissus had to exist
first for the reflection of his image on the surface of the pond had to
materialize in front of him. In other terms, our sense of being could be a
result of the nature of our awareness (consciousness of consciousness), or maybe
homosapiens sense of being leads to consciousness of consciousness. The dilemma
is which causes the other. This question pertains to the issue of structuralism
(the nature of the issue) not functionalism (cause-effect and which comes
first) because we need to know first what are the constituents of a
narcissistic state to decide what is cause and what is the effect of that
cause.
The
Structural Quality of Narcissism:
Interpreting
signs of narcissism in libidinal terms usually misses several features that are
most basic and intriguing in that psychical condition. Although underlining
those features will get the approval of most psychoanalysts, they will still
remain doubtful of explaining or elucidating them because psychoanalysts are accustomed
to discover causation within the structure of any psychical feature and not
visa versa. An example is dream interpretation: in the Irma dream Freud revealed
a wish that he tried to prove it to be accountable for the ‘dream scene’.
However, the wish did not explain the dream even after identifying it; it could
be said that the wish just initiated that particular dream scene. Therefore,
restructuring -building up- narcissism from its content or components is the
way to understand it. This is the reason I think the libidinal explanation of
narcissisms is useless and is actually distracting from understanding it.
I will
start by specifying four features that even ordinary people would relate to
narcissism. They are features that I find to be obvious and available for
direct observation:
1.There
is no narcissism (self- love) that is not accompanied by hate for a counterpart
of the self, in the form of another person or thing. 2. If the narcissistic proclivity
is reversed for a reason or without an obvious reason the hated person or
subject becomes charged with an exaggerated degree of admiration and love (hate
becomes adoration). 3. A strong tendency to exaggerate and over “libidinize”
positive and negative affects in regard to the narcissistic issue or object. 4.
Volatility of relations in which the object of the feeling or emotions is
volatile but the intensity of the feeling remains dominant.
Considering
those four features (and maybe few more that other analyst could come up with)
show in a simple and direct way that racism in general, the social history of
racism, the opinions about the reactions to racism among blacks and whites
(persecutor\persecuted) or social discrimination in any form it takes are product of narcissism. I can now
take this statement a step further and say: any social discrimination (gender,
sex, class or race) is a matter of narcissism, in which a group does not feel
good about another group claiming the right to be equal to their group.
It is the
right place to add another idea in regard to the ‘narcissistic hurt response’
the prevailing race (or group) goes through. The gradual loss of the privileges
becomes a wall of resistance to give up narcissism when the unprivileged prove
without any doubt that they have caught up (sometimes surpass) with privileged
adversaries. There is no doubt that Blacks in the USA have caught up with the
whites in every aspect of daily life. Therefore, whites are no longer able to
expect the inequality to continue a little longer till a total matching is
achieve. Copying from A. Richards “Quote for the Day” (without permission) Malcom
X said: “When we see that
our problem is so complicated and so all-encompassing in its intent and
content, then we realize that it is no longer a Negro problem, confined only to
the American Negro; that it is no longer an American problem, confined only to
America, but it is a problem for humanity."
What
Malcom X is saying is clear: Racism is a problem with the human subject and his
psychical nature. Therefore, I strongly believe that narcissism is not an
individual condition. It is part of social phenomena.
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