Idealization and self dception
I previously
published a post on idealization in regard to its deleterious effect on
training and interrelations within the psychoanalytic organizations. The gest
of my post was: idealization is a way to give one’s self greater value than it
deserves by idealizing something or some person whom we are in relation with.
Idealizing psychoanalysis is a way for analysts to feel bigger than themselves
(and others). Idealizing a TA is an obvious symbiotic exploitation of superiority
and identifying with the TA. Idealizing
the theory as it stands now, or our special training in our special institutes
as something unattainable anywhere else is blatant efforts to idealize
ourselves. There is a serious problem in that position: only us (less than 3500
members) believe in our superiority, because we relate to each other not as
analysts to analysts but as mirrors to each other..
Today’s
quote (Arnold Richards) comes from Anna Freud: "Papa continually emphasizes how much
remains unexplained. With the other psychoanalytic writers, everything is
always so known and fixed." This is a waning to us all. Complicity to idealization
of psychoanalysis and to everything related to it will kill it without effort
from us to save it: Save what, psychoanalysis! Psychoanalysis is perfect and it
is our saviour! This kind of narcissism survives on self deception. .Did you
notice that when we agree with an opinion on the open line we routinely praise
the college and when we differ we remind ourselves of the magnificence and insignificance of the disagreement.
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